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二流人士东张西望，一流人士聚焦在一个目标上
聚焦在优先度高的工作上非常重要。你认为呢？事实上，这个道理，即便脑袋里知道，但是不是有时候还是难以做到？你知道我为什么明白吗？因为我自己也是这样。
“按照优先顺序去工作，就会有成果。”这一点我是知道的，可是“排列优先顺序却出乎意料地艰难”。
比如，经常会出现的探讨人生方面的话题。
“我很疑惑，现在该不该跳槽。可是，考虑到将来要跟女朋友结婚的事情，现在的工作可能也不错吧。虽然我想着有一天能够独立，但是现在却有些不安。我该怎么办？”
作家村上龙说：“没有办法回答这样的问题。”他说，“自己都无法明确优先顺序的人，你无法给他提供建议。”
从村上龙的生活方式中可以窥见他重视优先顺序的态度——“我的情况是，一切以‘小说’优先，非常简单。只要是对小说写作有帮助的事情，我都会主动地去做，阻碍小说写作的事情，我都会避开。排在第二
位之后的事情，对我来说就无所谓了。”
铃木一郎的人生顺序中第一位是棒球；石川辽的第一位是高尔夫。 一流人士都聚焦在一件事情上。他们在一件事情上专注十年、二十年，
甚至倾注了全部人生，才成了第一流。最重要的事情，不是“决定优先顺序”，而是“决定优先顺序中的第一位”，不是吗？
不排好优先顺序，你会有损失。
不会排好优先顺序，就像在参考书上到处用荧光笔做记号一样，到处都觉得重要。因为不能聚焦在一个点上，所以眼睛就四处望，结果变得不知道该做什么了。
排列优先顺序跟结婚同理。像你只需跟最喜欢的那个人结婚那样，你只需决定最重要的那件事情就可以了。
请回答下面这三个问题：
“今天需要做的最重要的事情是什么？”
“这周需要做的最重要的事情是什么？”
“人生中最重要的事情是什么？”
这些问题你如果被问到了之后，能够迅速地回答出来，这点很重要。聚焦能够让你的人生密度变得更高。
哈佛医学院的杰夫·布朗博士和马克·芬斯克说：“决定了优先顺序，你的注意力便可以倍增。”只要将自己的大脑整理到一被问到你就能立刻回答出“现在最重要的是这个！”的程度，你就不会为杂事所扰，不会陷入情绪化的状态，可以毫不损耗地将你的精力注入重要的事情。
村上龙说：“自己都无法明确优先顺序的人，你无法给他提供建议。”与此同时，他也说：“只要自己做好了优先顺序，就不再需要别人的建议了。”
6 决定最重要的一点
POINT
聚焦可以增加人生的密度。
Second-rate people look around and the first-class people focus on one goal.
Focusing on high priority work is very important. What do you think? In fact, this truth, even if it is known in the head, is not sometimes difficult to do? Do you know why I understand? Because I am the same myself.
"Working in order of priority will produce results." I know this, but "the order of priority is unexpectedly difficult."
For example, there are often topics that discuss life.
"I am very confused. I shouldn't change jobs now. However, considering the future marriage to my girlfriend, the work may be good now. Although I think that one day I can be independent, but now I am a little uneasy. What should I do? do?"
Writer Murakami said: "There is no way to answer such questions." He said, "People who are unable to prioritize themselves can't give him advice."
From the lifestyle of Murakami, you can see his attitude of priority. "My situation is that everything is prior to the 'fiction'. It is very simple. As long as it is helpful for writing novels, I will take the initiative to do it. I will avoid things that hinder the writing of novels.
After the bit, it doesn't matter to me. ”
The first in the life sequence of Ichiro Suzuki is baseball; the first place in Ishikawa is golf.
First-rate people are focused on one thing. They focus on one thing for ten or twenty years,
Even pouring all the life, it became the first stream. The most important thing is not to "determine the priority" but to "determine the first place in the priority order", isn't it?
If you don't prioritize, you will lose.
There is no prioritization, just like using a highlighter everywhere in a reference book, it feels important everywhere. Because I can't focus on one point, my eyes look around and I don't know what to do.
Prioritize the same as marriage. Just like you just marry the person you like the most, you just have to decide the most important thing.
Please answer the following three questions:
“What is the most important thing you need to do today?”
“What is the most important thing to do this week?”
"What is the most important thing in life?"
It is important that you answer these questions quickly if you are asked. Focus can make your life density even higher.
Dr. Jeff Brown and Mark Finsk of Harvard Medical School said: "If you decide on the priority, your attention can be multiplied." Just tidy your brain until you are asked, you can immediately answer "Now The most important thing is this!" The degree, you will not be disturbed by chores, will not fall into an emotional state, and can inject your energy into important things without any loss.
Takashi Murakami said: "You can't give priority to people who can't make clear priorities." At the same time, he also said: "As long as you have prioritized, you no longer need someone else's advice."
6 Decide on the most important point
Prioritization
POINT
Focus can increase the density of life.
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